OP didn’t say if they’re on Android but RadioDroid is an amazing internet radio client. The original version doesn’t get updated anymore, but there’s a maintained fork. You’ll have to install it via Obtainium or directly download the APK: https://github.com/morckx/RadioDroid/releases

You can control the mpd stream remotely via malp: https://gitlab.com/gateship-one/malp

If you can connect to your home network via VPN you could also try to play from the remote music library via Samba share. This will not give you offline playback support though, which most Subsonic compatible clients support.

I never used it but if you’re willing to pay for Symfonium you can directly connect it to a Samba share. Or WebDAV, if you’re running Nextcloud anyways. This will give you offline caching as well. Don’t have any personal experience, but sounds convenient. Wish there was a FOSS music player with such a broad cloud storage support. Not having to run a dedicated music streaming service sounds great.

Two positions come to mind:

1. On the couch, man sitting on the couch, feet in front of the couch on the floor, woman on top. Something about having the support of the couch and the floor feels quite nice, can also feel like a good angle, ymmv.

2. Man standing, woman on the bed in doggy position. If you have a higher surface that’s comfortable the woman can also lay on her back. Because the man is standing he can recruit more of this body => more force. Can be quite fun.

Honorable mention: man lying on bed, woman on top, but not in cowgirl. She lies on him flat, doesn’t have to move and he fucks her hard from beneath. If the bed is hard enough you can develop quite some force here aswell. You get up your knees, feet driving into the mattress, legs slightly opened, think bow legs. Feeling the weight and close embrace of my partner while I’m really going at it, pretty good, I enjoy. Can feel quite intimate, can still be quite rough if you want it to be. I guess this is kind of like a reverse missionary? I’m not good with sex position nomenclature.

Sorry you feel that way rn, hope it gets better for you!

Like some other folks in this thread I also don’t like the phrasing of the question. A relationship doesn’t put you in a position to decide what another person is allowed to do. A relationship is about what you both can agree and commit on that fulfills / serves everyones needs.

I dont care if my partners are doing sex work, although I might worry for their safety, depending on their practice. For Onlyfans specifically I’d want to make sure that they are fine with the consequences of getting doxxed / people finding out about it. Sadly there’s still a lot of stigma about doing porn in society and I think you shouldn’t take that decision lightly. On the other hand, fuck society, do what thou wilt! :D

What would be a problem for me is what I currently see as exploitative behavior in the context of OF. Leaning into and furthering the parasocial relationship with the subscribers to the point that people spend more than they can afford or that they neglect relationships in their offline life. I understand that there is a lot of money in this, and I’d be open to discuss and understand their side of view, but if I would come to the conclusion that they’re putting their profit above the harm that they’re causing, that might be a deal breaker for me. But I also think that you can absolutely do OF while respecting your audience and minimize potential harm.

Wow, very hot!

I used to piss on my partners, I still do, but I used to too.

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This happens sometimes with redgif… try to right click on the video (in this thread, not on redgif directly) and choose “Open Video in New Tab”. This way the sound always works for me.