My wife has ARFID, and it’s so hard on her. That’s so interesting that you don’t feel hunger, she definitely does but has a very very small list of safe foods she wants.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•It's my 54th BD, left a $83K IT job last summer, interviewing at Lowe's tomorrow. Is it weird I'm looking forward to it?
8·11 months agoAre you me? Currently at the director level debating a switch back to dev. Prior director in my role did the same. I actually love my boss and when I’m empowered to run my org, the work is great. But too much of my job is trying to insulate my teams from the BS and it’s burning me out. But I’m not sure I’d want to give up being able to fight the BS and would eventually get frustrated by it again as a dev.
So here I am, riding it out. I know at some point politics will get me and my style of insulating my engineers will cost me my job, even though by doing so we have great productivity metrics. And being real - I think the hardest part is that by shielding my teams from the BS, I become the face for the shit that does get through so the people I fight so hard to protect often blame me for their very real complaints.
I’m not sure what’s next for me, but I save everything I can because I assume that the change might not be my choice.
Wife and I solved this by rule of 3. She gets to decide if she’s suggesting options or making a choice. Whoever is suggesting options gives 3 choices. They must be something the other potentially likes. The other then either chooses one of the three or has to suggest 3 choices of their own. We rarely have to go past the original 3 options any more.
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Games@lemmy.world•Do you have any recommendations for casual games?English
32·1 year agoDave the Diver. I had put down gaming because of tiredness and this game was such an unexpected joy of exploration and cute story for me. Easy to pick up and do a quick dive, decent progression based on a mix of skill and leveling up your character, and the writing was excellent. First game I 100% in forever and it was while playing it 30 minutes at a time.
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•You are being tortured. Your captor is forcing you to listen to someone else eat. What are they eating?
1·1 year agoOh my god those loop earplugs have been a lifesaver! Started using them about a year ago. Can’t recommend them enough for anyone else suffering
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•You are being tortured. Your captor is forcing you to listen to someone else eat. What are they eating?
28·1 year agoI have a condition called misophonia. Just kill me instead. Please.
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What would you do/how screwed would you be if you woke up in the last game you played?
2·1 year agoEscape from Tarkov. Yeah, I’ll be dead shortly.
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's an impulse purchase you've made and it turned out to be awesome?
2·1 year agoI bought the official dock and have struggled a bit with it. It sometimes doesn’t recognize my TV and has other connectivity issues that seem to only be solved by repeatedly restarting it. I had an extra HooToo adapter lying around at work and holy crap that thing is such an awesome adapter for cheap that connects to the TV or my monitors and peripherals so easy and I’ve never had issues.
The insurance is based on the cost to rebuild the home, which has also drastically gone up, so it makes sense that it has risen too
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's the lowest caffeine amount but still tastes good/carbonated drink?
2·1 year agoVast majority don’t, but I found after awhile that my favorite does (Ale8). That was on me - it’s clearly marked.
Webster@lemmy.worldto
pics@lemmy.world•Congratulations to SetSneedtoFeed for their Pic of the Week!
2·1 year agoIsn’t this the one on I71 between Cincinnati and Columbus? I drive that route a ton and see it every time. There may be another on I75, but I don’t drive it as much.
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is a "bad video game" you have bought as a joke (as in just for the laughs, the lols)?
4·1 year agoNot a bad video game, but I thought I had zero chance of liking it. I bought American Truck Simulator for $2 and it’s such a good zone out video with something (radio/e-book/etc) on in the background. When I’m too exhausted to think, but want to be slightly more engaged than just throwing something on TV, it’s now my go to right now. I bought it on the most recent steam summer sale and have 20 hours into already. All of it on the Steam Deck.
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Patient Gamers@sh.itjust.works•Are there any games you're planning to pick up during the Steam and GOG sales?
4·1 year agoFirst game I’ve 100% in a long time. I absolutely loved this game.
As much as I get this sentiment, I chose my profession in part because I like learning and my area requires learning new stuff all the time to stay relevant. The learning part of work is the part I enjoy and look forward to.
(For fans of Sanderson/Cosmere) But it could be fire …
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Linux@lemmy.ml•What are you most excited when it comes to linux in 2024?
5·2 years agoJust got a steam deck and love it. I also got the official dock and can’t believe how bad it is. I have to unplug it and my TV half the time to get the dock to connect correctly. It works fine for a few days, then stops. I’ve had picture issues and audio issues and even issues with the deck right after disconnecting it.
Don’t look up movie spoiler …
!This makes me think of the ending where they get off the ship on another planet just to immediately get eaten!<
Webster@lemmy.worldto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•When someone says landlords are asking for tips
15·2 years agoMany jurisdictions have laws that require a form of payment that doesn’t come with fees. I think mine requires the landlord to be able to accept cash or check without fees. If the lease says you can only pay online, and the only way to pay online requires those fees, that would be illegal in my area.
It was 50 last night when I took the dog for a walk. I was too lazy to put on socks, so it was in sweats with sandals and bare feet. Was surprisingly easier on the feet than I expected


There’s one other use case I love - i ask it to interview me or challenge me on my ideas. It can sometimes ask questions that cause me to rethink things. But in the end, I’m still the one doing the work. It’s my advanced rubber duck.