Totally. You don’t need to pretend to cry to make a point. I rarely cry but if I do it’s usually a relief to get it out. If the kids are around so be it. I don’t want to pretend to them that those feelings aren’t valid.
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In general, yes, kids don’t need to know about all the little troubles of adulthood. But when you have a rare situation that makes you incredibly sad, like hearing of a friend passing away, being overburdened by stress at Work, … It’s better that kids know that crying is okay, others can take care of you and you get better again.
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Games@lemmy.world•Nearly 90% of Windows Games now run on Linux, latest data shows — as Windows 10 dies, gaming on Linux is more viable than everEnglish
2·1 month agoDesktop on a 3060 Ti is doing fine. Never ran Windows on it to compare though
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's a service you’ve been using forever that hasn’t enshitified?
2·1 month agoThis sounds awesome! If what you’re talking about is a new software you’re working on, hit me up! I have time to spare for some coding and have literally considered writing a better feed reader for myself or finding an OSS project to contribute to
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's a service you’ve been using forever that hasn’t enshitified?
1·1 month agoBut the problem is the lack of good, simple RSS readers on mobile. I miss Pulse.
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pics@lemmy.world•SS style lightning bolt "N⚡S" on an ICE agents helmet
1·2 months agoThanks for educating me! I seriously had no idea. The accident rings a bell though
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pics@lemmy.world•SS style lightning bolt "N⚡S" on an ICE agents helmet
3·2 months agoNeve heard of them until now. But wouldn’t be surprised if they chose their name based on the initials.
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pics@lemmy.world•SS style lightning bolt "N⚡S" on an ICE agents helmet
1·2 months agoOh and “NS” like in NSDAP is also a pure coincidence?
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pics@lemmy.world•SS style lightning bolt "N⚡S" on an ICE agents helmet
202·2 months agoNS clearly signifies “national socialism” , i.e. what Hitler’s party called their ideology. Don’t evne worry about the lightning shaped rune in the center.
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Technology@lemmy.world•I got hooked on browsing openalternative.co is "Most Popular" listEnglish
3·3 months agoAfter testing a bunch I am now using HERE WeGo maps a lot. Less detailed on local shops and restaurants but has some reviews, opening hours etc Has great route planning including for bike and public transport.
More free would be CoMaps but that’s really mostly grey’s mapping and turn-by-turn and very little info on shops apart from them existing.
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Science Memes@mander.xyz•LPT: Go get a shot, now.English
1·3 months agoStay strong Canada! I hope in a few years people will just think of Canada when you say “America” because it’s the major civilized country in North America
This is why most of the world literally laughs about the US. Civilized countries have long removed finance from the worries you have when getting into an accident.
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Games@lemmy.world•At Gamescom, it felt like the industry now has a plan: make games quicker | OpinionEnglish
4·3 months agoKnowing the latest developments in “world models” that you can use to walk around in VR and interact with the world, I think it only a matter of time until GTA or similar games adopt that tech over manually layouting and skinning their worlds.
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Games@lemmy.world•At Gamescom, it felt like the industry now has a plan: make games quicker | OpinionEnglish
21·3 months agoI appreciate that this is truly a post commenting on the article and not just a link to an unreflected article 🙌
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Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Have you changed you youtube pfp to clippy ?English
2·3 months agoI’m using FreeTube on desktop. World pretty well. If you lots an update you might have issues before getting the latest version
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What other Communities would others like on Lemmy that don't already exist?
4·4 months agoI’d love to see more cycling related stuff. Like xbiking, fixed gear, …
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Games@lemmy.world•Outer Worlds 2 cut to $70 after backlashEnglish
4·4 months agoI seriously don’t even understand why people are excited about this game.
I played the first Outer Worlds on GamePass. I love SciFi and really enjoyed the setting. But it got so bland and predictable quite quickly that I dropped it. I picked up Witcher 3 soon after and loved that game even though I’m not a big Fantasy person. I finished the main story plus a bunch of side quests and still recommend it to people today. How people play these two games and still find Outer Worlds fun is beyond me.


Regardless of whether or not they’re from the same day and what caffeine does: that’s so much waste! If you drink at the same place, get a fucking reusable cup! Cutting down on this nonsense would do so much more than damn paper straws. It’s not even hard. Drinking out of a nice cup is more enjoyable too. I really hate when I forgot my thermos or a store refuses to fill it