• dj_slide@lemmynsfw.com
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    9 days ago

    The largest age difference I experienced was when I was 17 and she was 38. The most significant difference was when I was 29 and she was 42 (and one of my professors). In my experience, older women with whom I had sex possessed way fewer hangups than women my age. But that could easily be attributed to mutual self-selection.

    The lack of hangups mostly manifested as stuff like:

    • secure and comfortable in their bodies
    • more willing to experiment in raucous, ribald ways
    • into, or at least willing to do, anal
    • more knowledgeable about what works for them
    • more eager to do what works for me, even if they weren’t into it themselves
    • Mickey7@lemmy.worldOPM
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      8 days ago

      Agree with all your observations. Number one though is they are comfortable with their bodies. No hang ups like younger women who sometimes fret over how their tits or pussy looks