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  • I think this is at least partially true, in that if you had two identical people and one was more attractive, that one would have increased benefits over the other.

    This is my (male) perspective: I think an important part is to feel attractive and emit that confidence. Attractiveness can also be material things like how you dress, carry and style yourself as well as managing your personal hygiene and all those things.

    I think a moderately attractive person with a lot of charisma and humour would get a lot further than an attractive person. I think an attractive person without humour or charisma, maybe even a shy person, would possibly not go all that far based on their appearance.




  • No, the smaller userbase means there aren’t niche communities for my specific interests like games nobody but me like.

    I still like Lemmy but those specific connunites I can miss. I completely abandoned Reddit in the APIocalypse anyway

    The Sweden board was pretty good too, and there’s no where near similar engagement here.

    And I do not have the time, engagement or mental fortitude to make these communities, that would be dead, myself. To be honest I don’t really understand exactly how Lemmy and the Fediverse works - but I think to bring in more people that can’t be expected of users either.