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Cake day: March 9th, 2025

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  • I was going to come here and say I might be an outlier but I wish I’d done marriage sooner so I could essentially learn sooner it’s not for me. Plus there are assets that can be obtained easier in marriage that will be split in divorce that are nearly impossible single. And kids. Wish I’d started earlier. My old body is failing. Struggle is real no matter what age cause capitalism. I wish I could more easily keep up with my kid. I’m skating by. No one will ever truly be able to afford kids so let yourself struggle in the 20s.











  • Same thing happened to me my kid begged me for a cat made pics wrote notes at school. I was like I cant I’m allergic but at some point my friends asked me to take their cat for a while while they moved. Well they called two days later to say he was mine forever. I found hypo allergenic food. Fast forward if I leave the house for a while he won’t leave my side as if hea mad I left. He is an absolute spazzy joy. I love him so much. Hes 14 and derpy af